If someone barks at me, I am known to bite back, sometimes harder than they bit me, just to prove a point and to try to stop the barking.
someone treats me bad and says something mean to me, like....oh I don`t
know.....maybe something like 'I know how to kill you, dispose your
body where no one will find it, get away with it and have no remorse in doing so'
...... I might in turn say something back just as terrible.
confuses me when, after I will say something back to that person, they
get all offended, angry & vengeful towards me. Have they forgotten
what they said to me? How do they think I am going to respond to that?
Do they expect me to be all sweet & loving? Do they expect me to
Do they want me to not believe them? If that`s the case, then when do I
believe them? When they said they loved me only minutes before, am I
suppose to not believe that, but believe that they want to kill me or
believe they love me but not believe that they want to kill me? Just
what am I suppose to believe?
Just what is the proper response to a
loved one telling you they want to kill you, that you ruined their
life, that they are not happy, that you are the root of the problem?